World   apart

What we seen in everyday life inspire this letter. Divorce, women killed by their partner’s physical abuse seemingly on the rise, the sexual abuse of children, the large numbers of users who download pornographic materials of children, drunkenness and the spiraling use of illegal drugs, to name just a few of the symptoms that raise the alarms.
 There is a lot of stuff that is taking place that the public do not get to hear about, because it goes on be hide closed doors, and is just not spoken about in public. Take for instance the case of violence in the home. the scenario that immediately comes to mind is that of man-on-woman abuse so we’ll go with that for the moment, although in reality there are all sorts of cross violence that can take place in the home
 Let us say that we have a case of regular abuse being suffered by a woman at the hand of her male partner. Typically, she suffers in silence and presents herself to the outside world as being a very clumsy person who goes a round walking into doors and habitually falling down stairs.
She is her attacker’s facilitator. She makes it possible for him to carry on his abuse, as and when he wants to.
What happen if she warned him not to do it again after the first time, but when he did re-offend? She took out a large advertisement in her local newspaper stating that her husband who seems to think that she is some kind of punching bag is beating her. What would be his option? He could strike her for doing that or he would have to refrain if he did not wish to see yet another follow-up announcement. His third option would be to leave, having come to the decision that she was not co-operating.
  What disturbs most about this type of abuse is that it tends to be sustained. We are not talking about a one-off incident of hitting but rather that which goes on for many months or even years what drives that type of hatred?
 Then we have the situation whereby so many people feel the need to escape through drugs and drink. There are no solutions down those path, only more problem that can be foreseen before setting off in that direction so why go there?
  There is much to be concerned about, but the one issue that we should focus on now is that of equality for woman.
 American women are probably the most liberated and the most accomplished in business and politics, so they provide a how to and a how-not-to manual for the rest of the world.
  The American woman’s rise was not done in isolation. Her upwardly mobile movement required American men to get on board and support the program. A case of as Dr Martin Luther King put it “None of us are free until we are all free”. As American women gained in strength and maturity in the best cases so did American men. However many men folks have been left behind, which presents one set of problem, while other who tried to keep up now find themselves struggling to deal with this modern and capable women
 Part of the American meltdown is that our American women folks now find themselves increasingly left alone. Our American men folks says these women folks are not candidates for marriage because their standards too demanding and the risk too high that the marriage will end with disastrous consequences for our men folks
 What are our American women folks, to do? She focuses on a life of total independence, having a man only as an accessory, sort of like handbag. She can have her own space and use her man for occasional company many choose not to marry but they do have children they maintain their own homes and children visit between the two
  One is absolutely staggered by the depth of ill feeling on the part of some American men folks to get things clear go to www.nomarriage.com but be advice that you will encounter some very strong worded sentiments