by Godswill Odeku
Have you ever thought of getting a Nigerian girl for a wife? You are not alone and you are not mistaken in that regard. You might be a foreigner living or working in Nigeria. Or it might be you are in your home country over there in US, UK, Asia, Australia or in the Caribbean. On the other hand, you might be an African either from Ghana, Kenya, Cameroun or South Africa. Or maybe you are a Nigerian guy, at home or in the Diaspora, contemplating marriage. Whichever category you belong, whatever nationality, race or background, I can tell you it's an amazing experience to be married to a Nigerian girl. And this for good reason.
It is something I know that Nigerian girls are some of the best girls in the world in very many respects. For those of you guys who have got the opportunity of working in Nigeria or visiting the country, you must be conversant with the social life of Nigerians, especially the good natured mannerisms displayed by these girls. You know, sometimes, there are instances of some men who come to Nigeria to work only to bid their spouses goodbye effectively putting an end to their marital relationship due to the "sweetness" of their affair with a Naija girl. As much as I don't support such conduct, I think it speaks volumes of what a Nigerian girl represents in terms of fascinating a man's mind.
Generally speaking, an average Nigerian girl is groomed from birth to be everything a man would expect of a woman and a wife. She is taught to cook, to wash, to keep house and to do a lot of other things that home-keeping requires. They become very proficient with as many dishes and cuisines as possible. From native Nigerian dishes to African and continental dishes, she is horned in the preparation and presentation to her guests. She is taught table manners, etiquette, home-making and men management, so to speak. Hardly you find a Nigerian girl that doesn't know what it takes to keep her man at home and comfortable. This is something you find in every part of Nigeria.
From the girls in the riverine communities of the Niger Delta to the Fulani cattle- rearers daughters in Sokoto. Go from Obudu Ranch in Ogoja to the River Niger in Onitsha; go on to Enugu in the Eastern heartland to the streets of Port Harcourt; continue your trip to the West and meet the Yoruba ladies in Lagos, follow them to Ibadan, then move from Ilorin into Kogi and into the Middle-belt and meet the women of Idoma, Langtang, Gboko and Makurdi and trace your path into Kano, Kaduna and arrive
in Dutse: you would have had a refreshing feel of what feminine beauty abounds in the Heart of Africa Nigeria. You would then agree with me that Nigeria isn't the giant of Africa for nothing. She has what it takes to retain that title at least with regards to feminine gems.
Whether they are clad in native Nigerian attires or Western costumes they exude such beauty that would make any man's head spin. Individually and collectively, Nigerian girls know how to adorn themselves and bring out the best of that beauty the feminine folk possess. It doesn't matter where you meet them, be it in a typical rural community in Igbo land, in the busy streets of New York, in the snow-fleeced shores of Reykjavik or at the busy markets of Dubai, you will never miss out on what I'm telling you about Nigerian girls' knack for fashion. Infact, their fashion consciousness is unrivalled. Have you checked the runways recently? Their suits are superb. Talk of their wrappers (Hollandies, Akwete, Brocade, Jacquard, Ankara, etc), blouses (plain or beaded), skirts (long, short, straight, pleated, or whatever style), cardigans, lingerie or any other clothes they put on is always right on them. Have you checked on their jewellery bangles, earrings, necklaces, rings, trinkets, pendants, etc? You would be stunned to see how snug their footwear high-heeled or low-heeled shoes, moccasin, sandals, etc and even their perfumes are always superb on them. You won't regret putting your money on them because for sure they'll so radiate so much beauty that you'll wonder if you shouldn't have done more.
What can we say of the self-confidence and unassuming mien of an average Naija girl. She knows how to switch modes of attitudes to please you at all costs. A Nigerian girl is never the type to shift grounds when she knows there's nothing to lose.
Lest I forget, Nigerian girls hardly get sick, so you won't have to bother about being hooked with a sickler. Even HIV finds them tough to handle. Remember I'm not asking you to go play with them without a condom. Never leave your condom at home, especially if you met her at Allen Avenue or any other red light district in Nigeria or elsewhere. I can't vouch for what happens or does not happen. All I know is that you'll have a good time.
From the foregoing you can see why I am optimistic about guys from every part of the world shopping for wives from Nigeria. Naija girls already have the background information, knowledge and expertise to cater to any man's need, be
it culinary, marital, sexual or circumstances. They can fit in to your life for good and make you happy real good.
Now that we've got through the fundamental issues about the suitability and marketability of a Nigerian girl let me state that they are not for sale or trafficking. It is not only a crime against the sovereignty and dignity of Nigeria as a nation and her people but also a crime against humanity for anyone to engage Nigerian girls or any girl for that matter (underaged or overaged) in human trafficking, prostitution, drug deals or whatever else that is unconscionable.So how do you go about getting a Nigerian girl for a wife? Well, not much. Just a few easy steps:
You can walk into any Nigerian mission in any country and request for information regarding Nigerian girls and you can walk out with enough contact information for as many ladies as you would want to stake your luck on.
You could also go to any Internet dating sites (Date.com, adultfriendfinder.com, etc), get registered and check in your preferences (for Nigerian ladies) and you can be inundated with as many profiles of members from Nigeria. You'll find a bevy of beauties waiting for you to reach out to them and change your life for good.
Still you could use any of the messenger facilities (Yahoo Messenger, MSN Messenger, etc) on the Internet to connect with and chat with as many ladies as you can find. Who knows you could be on to something real good, like a lifetime experience.
You could be invited to Nigeria to come take one of these jewels to your home country. Or if you prefer to stay around, you stand the opportunity of benefiting from lots of privileges available to foreigners. In many communities in Nigeria, it is customary to allocate land to a daughter of the soil for her spouse who is a foreigner to develop for residential and/or commercial purposes. You also stand the opportunity of being privileged to be made a title citizen of the community where you reside and do business or even be awarded a national honour. The advantages of marrying a Nigerian girl are limitless, no inexhaustible.
I am personally inviting all you guys American, British, French, Spanish, Dutch, Asian, etc to take the next flight to Nigeria and you'll never regret your quest. Get a Nigerian girl now!
